<h1 style="text-align: center;">Got Game? Then You Need a Dating Game Plan</h1>
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<p>Having game is one thing, but having a game plan is what separates the amateurs from the pros. Dating and relationships are a Catch-22: we're all in it to learn more about what we want, but we also need to know what we want while we're dating and relating.</p>
<h2>Why Knowing What You Want Matters</h2>
<p>Confident, high self-esteem women look for men with the same qualities. They want to know it's real, they want to know you're for real, and will keep testing to know that you can stand on your own. And that's why it's important to know what we want.</p>
<p>There may be some uncertainty, since we'll never be 100% sure of what the future holds for us, but we need to have direction and focus. She needs to know that you can provide guidance and support when she needs it.</p>
<p>If we're still struggling to keep stability in any part of our lives and suffer instability as a result of it, then maybe it's not a time to be dating. 'Cause she'll prod that weakness that needs resolving; she needs to know you've got good housekeeping before she steps into your house. <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/03/20/10-helpful-tips-for-a-healthy-relationship/">10 helpful tips for a healthy relationship</a> can guide you in setting these foundations.</p>
<h2>How to Strengthen Your Game Plan</h2>
<p>Sort through the guys you hang out with and find the handful that have their sh!t together. Like really have it together and are willing to share their honest opinion with you. Then ask for that opinion. Ask for your blind spots, your weaknesses—get that reflection so you can fix what's wrong before it really blindsides you. <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/11/16/getting-closer-in-your-relationships-starts-with-you/">Getting closer in your relationships starts with you</a>.</p>
<p>Whether it's finances, health, or career, these will set the foundation for the specifics such as what kind of relationship or <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Belgium-dating-service.html?gender=female&page=4">a single woman we want</a>. Hey, ya can't run 'til you can stand and walk.</p>
<p>We can use the same process of bouncing ideas off our fellow men when we're up and running in relationships. As issues crop up, we can rest assured that we have an independent, second voice to back us up in times of need. And of course, check in with your woman too, because she'll point out things to you all the time that'll help you get your dating game to the next level. Learn more about improving your dating skills in <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/09/21/dating-advice-and-skepticism/">dating advice and skepticism</a>.</p>